Avoid alcohol use – Although you may feel like going home and relaxing with a glass of wine, it is very important that you avoid alcohol for at least 24 hours. The reason is that alcohol works on the way in which you preserve memories of recent events. Because alcohol tends to “numb” your feelings its influence causes your memories to be preserved in unpredictable ways. It is very important that your brain have the opportunity to deal with all aspects of a traumatic event so that you will be less likely to be bothered by it later in ways that you may not understand.
Avoid caffeine – Caffeine is a stimulant. You need to relax and be calm. The stimulation of both caffeine and a traumatic event may make it harder to cope and settle down.
Communicate about the event – Your mind needs to process what happened so that it can resolve your personal feelings. Talk with your co-workers, manager, EAP counselor, Chaplain, family members and friends. Bottling up your feelings will inevitably cause them to appear later in unpredictable ways. You may want to bring home the phone numbers of some of your co-workers to give support to one another in the coming days.
Ask for nurturing and understanding when you return home – Sometimes friends and family may not understand the feelings you experience following a traumatic event. Ask your loved ones to help you relax by being supportive and understanding.
Use natural methods to relax – A warm bath, massage, and/or favorite music are much better means of relaxing after a traumatic event than an alcoholic beverage. Think in terms of pampering yourself after a difficult experience. Exercise within healthful limits is also a great way to deal with stress.
Seek help if the stress symptoms do not diminish after a reasonable amount of time – You may want to consider getting some additional help through your EAP program, Chaplain or through a mental Health professional. Prompt attention to traumatic stress can often minimize long-term effects.
Adapted, Richard J. Ottenstein, Ph.D., CEAP, CTS